Can't you all just stopp atacking eatch oder personally and keep to the topic??
BOL... I see them as a tribe putting themselves on a pidestall. It's their way or no way. When it comes to grey villages. When it comes to merging and letting members go again. And when it comes to other players.
I know of a player that chose to be in another tribe than BOL. This was after a long time of talking together, as ppl - not with intentions for him to join them, not with the intentions to merge with them. He left his tribe, joined another one. BOL didn't approve of it. BOL sent him threats and started scouting him. Geee, that is nice done. When that is said, they never attacked him. But still, not the best way to treat ppl.
Again. It's BOL's way or no way.
BOL is not God and not the center of the universe, not even V1. Start acting like allies.